“Do you still love her/him?”

For some, when it comes the curiosities of our boyfriends/girlfriends previous ex’s, this question usually or occasionally will rise sooner or later in the relationship. It’s the type of question that you certainly would expect the answer to be “Of course not” or “No, baby I love you” or something that has N.O. in the sentence. And that if the answer comes in with a long pause in the front like, “uuh,, what do you mean do I still love him/her?” or “umm, you mean love as in care right?” or the one you’re probably dreading the most, “um, well, I still care for her yeah,, but I don’t love her.” Then the strings of angry, curious, negative-thinking questions arrives to your brain and then you’re mouth start saying things like, “so you still think about your ex or something?!” or “The Fck!?”

Bottom line: Don't ask the question if you're not prepared to hear the answer.