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I found this on my laptop just before, I had written it ages ago, but never read it again until now. Thought that I might as well share it.. :)

I’m 19 years old; this is what I know about life so far.
Hoping to find love from your boyfriend or girlfriend, in order for you to find love for yourself will never get you the love you want. The ultimate love that you should be looking for is within yourself and nowhere else. When you’ve learned to love yourself in your own way, nothing else can fade you out of it. Trying to find yourself in other people won’t get you anywhere but feeling disappointed. Because the truth is no one else knows you better than yourself, you just don’t know it yet. Learn to look for love nowhere else but in yourself, from there you can give and in turn receive true love from others you care for. How? Spend time being with yourself, without depending on guys or girls to give love or support to you. It isn’t easy but it’s worth it.

Whatever you give out to people will always come back to you. Lying, cheating, manipulating, using, any sorts of behavior you make will ultimately come back to you. The same goes with other people’s behavior towards you, whatever they’ve done to you, will ultimately come back to them. When I’m hurt, I’ve learned to be glad that I’m hurt, because I know that someday, somehow that person will feel it too without me having to say anything or lift a finger. Sit back, relax and live your life, karma will always take care of things in its’ own natural ways.

What we give out will only come back to us, so blame no one else but ourselves. And life is fair, if you pay attention to the way you feel everyday, happiness doesn’t last forever and neither does pain. When we feel sad today, understand and know that we will feel happy again if not now then soon. When the days are still shitty, start doing something about it. Good things won’t come to you in a delivery; you’ll need effort and patience.

The things we take for granted will leave us, unless we start appreciating it’s presence. Boyfriends, girlfriends, family, money, belongings, any living or materialistic things will eventually leave, unless we begin to say thank you for having them in our lives. Appreciating them once they’re gone is never a nice feeling to have, especially knowing you’ve fucked it up way too bad for it to go back. So be glad to have whatever it is you have right now in your life and say thank fuck you’ve got them before it’s too late.

Saying sorry and admitting you’re wrong sometimes can be the hardest thing to do. But you’ll never grow up unless you can learn to do that and mean it. Accepting that you’ve made a mistake and living up to the consequences is a part of growing up. So unless you start taking responsibilities for your own actions, you will never experience how it feels to grow up.

Treat others the way you would want to be treated. In other words, if you don’t want people talking shit behind your back, don’t do it yourself. If you don’t want your boyfriends or girlfriends to cheat or lie to you, don’t do it yourself. If you don’t want people to be mean to you, don’t do it yourself. However, if you don’t give a shit whether any of those things happen to you or not, and you feel like you can handle it if they were to happen to you, then go ahead do what you want. Understand that ultimately you’re going to be the one facing the consequences, so unless you feel like you can handle it, think twice about the decision you’re about to make.

Being jealous is about being insecure; we just don’t want to admit it. Why? Because it would mean that we’re not happy with ourselves that’s why we envy those that we think has something that we’re lacking. What to do to not get jealous? Be secure. How? Learn to see the good things in your selves and learn from your bad habits. How? Learn in your own way to love your body, mind and spirit, because it is the only body, mind and spirit you get to have. What else is best to do but to embrace what you have right now and make the best use of it, while you still can? Instead of complaining and reminding yourself of who you’re not and what you don’t have, start focusing on what you can actually do. Love yourself.

We give a fuck even when we say we don’t give a fuck. We’d like to give the impression that we don’t care about anyone else’s’ opinions, when deep down inside we actually mind when people talk shit. Instead of giving an act that we couldn’t care less, accept the fact that we’re only human and we can only go so far with not caring. No matter how much we want to think that we only care about ourselves, the truth is we will always care about others’ opinions. Caring isn’t such a bad thing to feel when we know how to use it the right way. However, looking for acceptance from other people is the type of caring that will give you no advantage. People will always have their different opinions and are entitled to them in every way, worrying about whether they like you or not would be a waste of time if you already feel happy with yourself. Not everyone’s going to like you anyways, so does it really matter? Is it really that bad? No.